Single Friends

Single friends. when you're single they can be one of your biggest assets. always there when yu wanna clear your mind, party, etc. but when you're in a relationship? 3/5 times they become your biggest liability. sure not everybody yu choose to hang out with is gonna be in a relationship and thats fine. the problem lies within taking their advice about your relationship. think about it. if they were SOOOOO qood at being in a relationship and their advice was SOOO qood,  WHy ARE THEy SiNGLE?? i'll give yu a moment. done? lets move on. single friends are the biggest relationship haters out. why? because they're not in one. its the whole "misery loves company" thing. 9/10 times the single friend is usually bitter af and jealous because yu have somethinq they want but cant aquire. every little pitfall in your relationship whether serious or minor is ammunition to their little bitter rants. have yu ever had a issue with your significant other and hit up a friend for advice and the first thing they say is "idk why you fuckin with them they so this they so that i wouldn't stay with them if i was you." now wat does that do to you? it builds up the doubt yu have already a little bit more. now here is what yu can do. A) tell them "you're not me so ima do what i think is right keep your bitter thoughts to yourself or yu gon keep bein sinqle and lonely." [sometimes you gotta be blunt with em. ya the truth hurts but somebody's qotta tell em *single shoulder shrug*] or B)"damn i think You right..this is a lotta work bein with somebody =(" #superpause when the FUCK did being in a relationship become something that should be easy??? if it was so easy guess who would be in one just like yu?? *shadily glances toward single friend* a relationship is something you're supposed to WORK for so that even if things qet hard yu know yu can qet through it. make sense yet? if you keep listenin to single people guesd what you'll be?? SiNGLE. and more than likely miserable just like them. a relationship is between TWO people. not two people and everybody who wants to be involved. i mean.. it's fine to have people yu know you can go to to get GOOD and i mean "man i know you care about them you're just going through rough times but no matter what it is , if yall care about each other yall can work it out just don't give up on em" good advice. just dont keep the people who only have the negative things about you and yours around you because they WiLL fill your head with bs thats just gonna have you more in doubt and ultimately ruin everything you've work so hard for. the only person yu should be listening to is yOURSELF because at the end of the day you and ONLy you knows what yu will ultimately do. so please. dont set yourself up for the kill by listening to bitter bitches/nighas. just think about this every time yu have the urge to listen to them- "when is the last time i saw them in a happy healthy relationship with its ups and downs but still worked throuqh it instead of just giving up?" if somethinq doesn't come up riqht away then they're proooooooooobably not the ones yu should be listening to #ijs

-Ash

@beautifltrouble